A few years ago I graduated from high school. At that time, nearly all my friends were driving cars, either on L or P plates. Most were decent enough when it came to driving, while others used it as a chance to dig their early graves.
Sound harsh? Think about it. How many people die on our roads each year? Now, how many of those are between the ages of 17 and, say, 40?
Locally, in 2005, there were 152 reported car accidents and 164 deaths, down only marginally on the year before. 47 of those deaths were between the ages of 17 and 24, while another 48 where killed at age of 25 through to 39. That's 95 in total, more then half.
Now I'm not suggesting that younger drivers are completly to blame for the records, but the stats don't lie. Clearly the younger you are, the more likely it is that you will come to grief. But why is that? What makes younger drivers more open to accident? Surely older drivers, with poor eyesight and lower strength levels, would be better candidates for such things?
My driving instructor once told me that the reason why it's better to start learning to drive at a younger age is because, at that time of your life, you are far more carefree, more interested in living life then worrying about taxes, bills and when the next election is coming along ... not that we oldbies worry about elections anyhow.
Point being, the younger you are, the less likely you'll feel intimidated to follow the rules. That, of course, is the big problem. Through this state of mind, taking resposibility for such things, such as driving, doesn't always come into question for a young 17 year old just starting life out of the school drone.
My instructor also told me that sometimes the best way to learn how to live life is by having a close call or two to wake you up. Now I don't completly agree with this, but I guess the teen society does since they love it ... to death.
It's easy for me to say such things, since I never drove at that age. I'm only doing it now, and I'm 23! I've become far more cautious to the world around me, but not too much. I still have a sense of the carefree life at times, but only when the occasion suits it. It just annoys the crap out of me to turn on the TV each day and hear how another young driver caused chaos on our roads. How many more accidents will it take for everyone to realise it isn't a game anymore?
We've all had the talk from our parents, going on about drink, drugs, sex. It's all a matter of choice. Once we pass that age where adulthood takes over, whether it's right or wrong doesn't really factor in anymore. If we want it, we'll have it. There are other options, too, and sadly those involve other states of mind, violent and otherwise. That can be attributed, in part, to the way we are brought up and those around us. So as much as human life is a fragile thing, we are still yet to learn to take care of it, let alone understand it.
How do we change this, if at all? Is it possible to reach into our minds and make the obvious crystal clear? I may answer them on another occasion. What do you think?